The Angels came to guide Jim home to Heaven on Tuesday, July 9. The boys, their wives, and Margaret were all there to release him lovingly into the arms of Jesus. Their hearts are aching but they are so very grateful that this long Journey has come to an end. The words thank you could never begin to express the gratitude they have to so many who have walked this Journey with them. They could not have done it alone and are so thankful that God blessed them with so many people who supported them and carried them along the way. God Bless you all!
Funeral services were held on Monday, July 15 at St. Michael Catholic Church, Sioux Falls, South Dakota. The attendance and outpouring of support was overwhelming. Jim had orchestrated the majority of the funeral services and it was truly a beautiful tribute to a life well lived.
The following is a letter that was written by Jim's sons and shared at his funeral:
To all of our dear family and friends:
The words “thank you” could not
adequately express the gratitude we feel for all of the amazing support we have
received over the past 17 months.
All of the kindness and prayers are what sustained us during these
difficult times. God never intended
for us to do the difficult things in life alone, that is why he gave us each
other.
Dad tried to instill the message of
always giving your best into the minds of his children. He told them that they didn’t need to
be the star, just put forth your best effort and give the glory to God. He often said, “Be the best version of
yourself that you can be.”
Dad loved to laugh. His dry and witty sense of humor made
light of all situations. He was
quick to ease awkward and uncomfortable moments with a joke. When he was with his brothers, they
would often laugh so hard that they would be in tears.
As we have reflected on Dad’s life
over the past couple of days, we were again reminded of his passion for his
family and for life. He was very
selfless and always put others first, especially his family. Dad worked two jobs for nearly 27 years
sacrificing holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries, in order to provide for his family. While Mom was tirelessly running the
boys from one activity to the next, Dad was usually working but he always made
a point to be present for important events like games, piano recitals, school
programs, graduations, or whatever the occasion may be.
Dad taught us many lessons but, the
most important lesson was how to rely on God during life’s challenging
times. He not only showed us that
prayer and a relationship with God are what will bring you peace, he lived
it. After Dad was diagnosed in
February 2011 he wanted to share his journey with others. He started a blog with the hopes of
bringing people closer to God and to strengthen their relationships with Jesus
Christ. When people would ask how
he was doing, Dad often responded, “living the dream.” We were so privileged to share that
dream with him.
As dad’s disease progressed, he often
listened to music on his iPod while he slept. A song called “The Old Man” had particular meaning to him
and to us. We would like to share
those lyrics with you;
The Old Man
The tears have all been shed now
We’ve said our last goodbyes
His souls been blessed
He’s laid to rest
And it’s now I feel alone
He was more than just a father
A teacher my best friend
And he’ll still be heard
In the tunes we shared
When I play them on my own
I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
And I miss him, the old man
As a boy he’d take me walkin’
By mountain field and stream
And he showed me things
Not known to kings
And secret between him and me
Like the colors on the pheasant
As he rises in the dawn
Or how to fish and make a wish
Beside a fairy tree
I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
And I miss him, the old man
I thought he’d live forever
He seemed so big and strong
But the minutes fly
And the years roll by
For a father and a son
And suddenly when it happened
There was so much left unsaid
No second chance
To tell him thanks
For everything he’s done
Oh, I never will forget him
For he made me what I am
Though he may be gone
Memories linger on
God I miss him, the old man
Thank
you to all who have traveled this journey with us. Dad, your journey is finally over. “Well done my good and faithful servant.” We love you Dad! Rest in Peace.